It's funny how time consuming a bloggers life can be. Barely have a chance to think of an excuse not to write something. Remember when you first met each other, the idea that you would need help in the bedroom just did'nt factor into the equation, but that was a few years ago now. He's put on a few pounds, maybe you have yourself but your not going to admit that:) Anyhoo, lets just say the sparkle has dulled slightly. Why not make the effort and dress up a bit, nothing fancy, just  a new babydoll or corset, you don't even need to shave your legs if you wear stockings aswell. Sometimes you have to work at things to get rewards, make him happy for one night and you can reap the benifits for at least a week!!